Missionaries in Bangladesh to support families and migrants
Dhaka (AsiaNews)
- "I love you, I want to marry you, but you have to get rid of that little
boy" was the condition that a man put to Teresa (not her real name for
security reasons), his partner, to legalize their union. The
woman, a Bangladeshi Catholic, never revealed the name of the natural father of
her son. The
partner, however, a Brahmin Hindu converted to Christianity, could not accept
this secret: "I do not know where he comes from, and this bothers
me." Teresa
is a strong woman, she resisted her companion's demands, but it was hard. Her
father and some Missionaries of the Immaculate (female congregation linked to
the Pontifical Institute for Foreign Missions PIME), operating at the Jesus Worker
Centre come to her aid: together, they talk to the man, trying to convince him
that the boy is not a bundle to be discarded. Gradually,
the man realizes the pain he has caused to Teresa, but especially the child. Today,
the two are married, the boy is 12 years old and has two little brothers to
play with.
"It
was a very difficult path" - Sister Mariangela Colombo, Missionary of the Immaculate
who followed the case closely tells AsiaNews.
"We took Theresa and her son, step by step: the refusal to compromise, to full
acceptance. The worst
thing was seeing this boy at the mercy of forces that he could not handle. He
did not know his father and the mother's partner did not want him, and she was
torn. In the end, meeting frequently with the grandfather the man understood, and
formed a beautiful family. "
The
story of Teresa and her son is only one of many that revolve around the Jesus Worker Centre, founded in 1995 in
Maripur, an area on the northern outskirts of Dhaka, on the initiative of Fr. Gianpaolo
Gualzetti and Brother Massimo Cattaneo (both PIME missionaries). The
basic idea is to help the many boys and girls from tribal villages come to the
capital to find work.
Sister
Mariangela has been in Bangladesh for 27 years, and 3 in the Centre. "This
- she explains - is a place of passage. Migrants from every corner of
Bangladesh come here, each with different languages, customs, traditions and
different ways of eating. Upon their arrival in the city they are completely
lost, but here, even if for a short period,
they find a point of reference". The
main effort involves the field of education: "Often, we go to the homes or
slums, and try to take the kids to school, so they may receive at least basic
education." For
young workers instead, each month the centre organizes seminars, inviting
experts to discuss different issues: "We have had talks about the law,
worker's rights, drugs, relationships, the Bible and even the Koran."
Another
"service" offered is that the savings account: a kind of bank deposit
without interest, that young people can use to set aside money from their
salary. "This
- highlights the religious - is a way to keep them 'bound' to us, and teach
them the value of money. They learn to put money aside to send to their mother
left the village, their little brothers and sisters so they can study, or to buy land".
"I
know that may seem like small things, but here there is so much need this kind
of work. And the youth are the first to appreciate it." Usually,
in fact, even after their period at the hostel is finished, they remain in
contact with the nuns. "They
come to visit us, to present us their wife or husband, they bring us their
children. We create bonds of trust and affection."
07/02/2019 17:28
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