Catholic families in Indonesia: With our differences, we are all "one in the Church"
Jakarta (AsiaNews) - Being invited to the National Conference of the Catholic Church in Indonesia (Sagki 2015) is "a great blessing and I am grateful to have participated in this occasion, in which all the delegates brought their own customs and traditions, values and cultures, to show that, despite the differences, we are still one Church: the Church in Indonesia”, said Ngantung, the only teen girl among the delegates of the congress of the Catholic Church which ended on 6 November.
The title of Sagki 2015 was: "The Catholic family: The Gospel of hope. IIts vocation and mission in the Church and in the plural society of Indonesia. " Nearly 600 priests, religious and laity from 37 dioceses all over the country gave testimony, sharing concerns and hopes.
From the western most archdiocese of Medan (North Sumatra) to the easternmost of Merauke in Papua, all sent representatives to the event organized by the Catholic Bishops' Conference (KWI). During the five-day meeting six families were asked to tell their story.
A couple who are both doctors from Makassar described the joy of serving the population in a province with a Muslim majority, like that of South Kalimantan. "The Muslim society - says Hugo, Merlinda’s husband- has always welcomed me despite my Catholic faith".
Conny, a dentist from South Sulawesi, spoke of his choice to donate all her savings to the Church and its educational work, and how this decision has generated a blessing in his life, as it brought her family closer together, separated for some time due to irreconcilable work commitments. "We had decided to get married to remain together - says Vincent - but as soon as we got married I had to allow my wife to move to remote areas to practice his profession as a dentist”.
Ari, a separated woman with two children, spoke of her troubled separation from her husband, after four years of abandonment, threats (to her and their children) and suicide attempts. Thanks to some friends she decided to separate from her husband and to continue to live, but has been repeatedly rejected by the Catholic community "because I am a young separated woman ". She had to change the parish and was finally accepted by another local Catholic congregation, and now works for the parish as administrator.
Toos, a Christian airline pilot, after 35 years of marriage with his wife a convinced Muslim, spoke of her decision to be baptized. "As a family - he says - we were happy with our shared life, although my wife was not Catholic, and our joy has become even more complete when she decided on her own initiative to be baptized".